The Gate — J Calaway — Make Today Count — Guard

Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.” (Proverbs 4:23)

 why is guarding our hearts so crucial? Think about it: everything we do, every decision we make, stems from what’s in our hearts. If we allow negativity, fear, or doubts to take root, it can lead to destructive patterns in our lives. Conversely, when we fill our hearts with positivity, hope, and faith, we create a foundation for a fulfilling life.

1. Discernment of Influences: We live in a world filled with distractions and negative influences. Media, peer pressure, and toxic relationships can easily sway our hearts. It’s essential to be discerning about what we allow into our lives. Ask yourself: Are these influences uplifting or depleting?

2. Mindfulness of Thoughts: Our thoughts shape our reality. The Bible reminds us to take every thought captive (2 Corinthians 10:5). When negative thoughts invade, we must consciously replace them with uplifting truths.

3. Nurturing Healthy Relationships: Surround yourself with people who inspire and uplift you. Relationships play a significant role in shaping our hearts. Choose friendships that encourage your growth and align with your values.

Practical Steps

1. Daily Reflection: Spend a few minutes each day in prayer or meditation, reflecting on your thoughts and feelings. Ask yourself what you need to let go of and what positive affirmations you can embrace.

2. **Set Boundaries:** Be intentional about your time and energy. If certain activities or people drain you, it’s okay to set boundaries. Protecting your heart may mean saying ‘no’ to things that don’t serve your well-being.

3. **Engage with Positive Content:** Fill your mind with uplifting books, podcasts, and music. Seek out messages that inspire you and align with your values. This will help cultivate a heart filled with positivity.

4. Practice Gratitude: Regularly take time to express gratitude. Write down things you’re thankful for and reflect on the blessings in your life. Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to the abundance we have.

Remember, guarding your heart is an ongoing process. It requires diligence and intentionality, but the rewards are immeasurable. By protecting your heart, you’re not just safeguarding your emotions; you’re actively choosing to live a life aligned with your purpose and to Make Today Count!