The Gate — J Calaway — Make Today Count — React or Respond

Oct 22, 2025    J Calaway

“Fear is a reaction, but courage is a decision.”


Intro – Setting the Tone

Fear is something everyone faces — it’s natural and emotional.

Courage, on the other hand, is spiritual — it’s a choice.

Key thought: Fear shows up automatically, but courage must be chosen intentionally.


Point 1 – Fear Is Natural, but It Doesn’t Have to Be in Control


Fear is a reaction — your body’s way of saying, “This matters.”


The danger comes when fear leads your decisions instead of faith.


2 Timothy 1:7: God gives power, love, and a sound mind — not fear.


Takeaway: Acknowledge fear, but don’t give it the steering wheel.


Point 2 – Courage Is a Decision, Not a Feeling


Courage is not the absence of fear — it’s action in spite of fear.


Joshua 1:9: God commands courage — it’s a choice, not a mood.


Courage chooses obedience over comfort, faith over fear.


Takeaway: Courage is trusting God’s promises even when your emotions don’t line up.


Point 3 – Courage and Faith Walk Hand in Hand

Peter walking on water is a picture of courage in motion (Matthew 14:29–31).


Courage happens when faith steps out before fear steps in.


Keep your focus on Jesus, not the waves.


Ecclesiastes 11:4: Don’t wait for perfect conditions — step out in faith now.


Takeaway: You might not control the storm, but you can control your decision to trust God.


Challenge

Fear is a reaction — but you can decide to respond differently.

Decide to speak truth.

Decide to forgive.

Decide to take the first step.

Make the decision to trust God today.


Final Reminder:

You can’t always control what happens around you —but you can always choose courage within you.


Make today count.